Would you fight for your family for survival? Would you do whatever it takes to let your family have a good life? Family meant the most dearly to me and I will do whatever I can to keep them out of harm way and live a better life. Different people have different definitions about success. Some people thinks that success is having an own family, having kinship, friendship, relationship and also having good health for their love ones. Some people thinks that having success is having a lot of money, being able to tour the world and do whatever things they like and wish too.
Family is very important to most people and more often times, many people doesn’t really have what it takes to keep their family alive needless to say to having a better life. Take for example, during your free time, how do you spend your time? Playing games? Going out with friends? Enjoying yourself? Playing and drinking and clubbing? I had seen many of that. I am not saying doing all these things is wrong but if you were to use every of your free time on these kinds of enjoyment and knowing at the back of your mind that your family needs more support, how would you feel? Do you feel good after enjoyment?
To be frank, I work very hard night after night right after work. I know it myself, that if I keep going this way, my health is going to be heading down hill. But what does that compared to my parents at a very old age and still have to work day after day, month after month, year after year, where they should be already enjoying their retirement life after bringing you up to be a grown up. I am not trying to mean you can’t enjoy yourself, but spend some time and thoughts for you yourself and your family. To be able to achieve everything that you want and at the same time providing your family a good environment to live, is not easy but keep going and do not give up!
At any point in time, if you are going to give up, give me a contact through my contact page or better, let me know through the comments and I will get back to you at soonest! Head On!
Being successful in your goals and dreams is always not an easy task. I have came to realize it on my way pursuing what I wanted in the long term. You need to have the following feelings:
Faith
Perseverance
Belief
Never Give Up Spirit
Patience
It not easy to have all the above mentioned. There are too many things in life where it will beat you to the ground permanently, if you let it. One thing I want to let you know is, the bigger the obstacles, the greater the sense of achievement. Imagine you are just a seed planted in the soil. You try your very best to grow and break through the soil, you kept trying and trying and just about when you are about to break through, you give up and in that instant, everything is over. Once you give up, everything is over, there isn’t a need to say anything at all.
If you are trying your best in doing something and you fail, change your strategy and try again. A matter of fact, many people tried something and failed and keep using the same strategy. You can’t expect a different result using the same strategy over and over again, something needs to be changed. Being successful or not, only depends on the 6 inches in between your ears, that’s all it is. We all have the same mind, same body, same soul but the difference is the software running in the mind that makes the difference.
In your road to success, you need to humble and keep learning. A cup that is already full, no more water can be pour into it, you need to empty it before new knowledge can flow in, always remember that. Lastly, I would like to share with you a small paragraph of what Steve Jobs had shared in 2005 at Standford Commencement Address.
“Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.”